I remember the dial up sound over the clanging of pots in the kitchen as my mother prepared dinner. It was during this window of time, my sisters and I were allowed a supervised session to explore the wild, wild internet, that is, if our homework and chores were done.

We didn’t know what we were doing. Hitting up chat rooms. It was a new game and one that seemed dangerous. Every morning, my mother made sure I had a quarter in my pocket for the payphone. Most days, I walked from school to work, where I called to check in with her before my shift at the local pizza parlor.

Contrary to what some might believe, life with wifi was neither dull nor boring. More people recognized each other that’s for sure. We certainly acknowledged each other in a way that has been lost now that we all have the itch to stare out our screens whenever there even the briefest moment of downtime.

I remember journaling after school whenever I could take the long way home. The way the chain link fence felt against my back. The way the light slipped its fingers through the leaves and found new places to explore on the forest floor. Privacy felt pure back then. My thoughts more isolated without social media and platforms for posting.

It was easier to pretend that some things couldn’t be contaminated before the internet made everything viral.

Cover Art: Ancient by Matthew Jaeh

24 responses to “Dial Up”

  1. yes, I remember — vaguely — that time before the internet: it seems so long, long ago —

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    1. Yes. Things took a lot longer and yet time seemed to stretch.

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  2. I think about those times… back when I had a desktop computer and things were on floppy disk and then CD-ROM. That awful dial-up noise. Ah chat rooms and instant messaging. What a time. When “instant” still had a wait to it.

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    1. yeah i too used dialup phone and was from the era were few phones and no internet was there in the world

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    2. well, when you put it like that.🤣. There was a lot of waiting back then. Thanks for commenting, Melissa.

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    3. Oh, the floppy disk. Always a moment of holding my breath hoping the thing would load.

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      1. I think about “computer games” I played.😂 I’d love to show my kids what it was like when I was their age.

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  3. Oh boy do I remember those days! The sound of “logging onto” the internet. It was an irritating sound and a pain in your bum. So sloooow. I am blessed to have grown up in the 60s and 70s, no internet, just my friends and swimming and building tree forts! Instagram has for me been down for almost a week which has shown me what a time-suck social media is. Blogging is much better.

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    1. I agree. I am grateful for the conveniences, but also miss the contact and the lack of distraction.

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      1. Some things should never change…

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  4. God I hated that shit. Thank God for modern technology. I couldn’t even check my email cause everytime some fuckwad called looking for someone, they disrupted the internet in my house.

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    1. True. How about that old phone book? Although, I must say, I wouldn’t mind looking at peoples’ faces again instead of their foreheads. 🤣

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      1. The phone book is a mixed bag. Sometimes realizable and other times no. But there are still phone books. So I suppose it depends.

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      2. Are there? We don’t seem to get them here. The city phone book would be such a waste of paper.
        I think if we’re done printing menus, we can surely retire the phone book.

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  5. excellent points made at the end, and memories so well written

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    1. Thank you, Beth. I have to force myself to disconnect. I think electronic purging should be a regular thing.

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  6. I miss the dial up days in a way

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    1. Me, too. Dial up might be just the delay we need to simply do something else. Thanks for popping by, Simon.

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      1. Doing something else is usually better. You’re welcome – I hope you’re good 🙂

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      2. We could bring back the dial up like a sort of penalty for going over your average minutes.. I’m doing well. Finishing those last few days to the school year’s summit. Hope all is well with you.

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      3. I like that idea, personally things are too easy these days. We’re a victim of our own success.
        Keep well I hope the summit goes well 🙂

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  7. I love the image of light slipping it’s fingers through the leaves! 🌟

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  8. Thank you, Susan. Those moments were so touching.

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  9. It looks like they digitized their phone books now

    https://www.whitepages.com/white-pages

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